Cancer Men
The most sensitive and the weakest emotional type in all Zodiacs he is the man. Most Artists are Cancer. Cancer is controlled by the “Moon” and the moon change it’s shape daily, so Cancer man’s emotional and moods change all the time too. You will confuse with him and yet it is his constantly changes that “Charm” you.
He never goes to get what he wants directly, but he will wait? For chance and opportunity to do so. Once he gets what he wants, he will not loose it, except if he gets tired of it by himself. The most sensitive man who can not stand rejection. He cares what other people feel or think of him. He hates loosing face and he tends to over protected himself, so sometimes people might think he is a cold person. Gifted, creative, imaginative, is Cancer.
A mystery and complexity play a major role in a life of a Cancer man. He could be very funny, very quiet, and suddenly very sad. Living with him could be much unexpected, for you will not know what his next mood is. If you like excitement and surprise, you have the right guy and never have a chance to get bored. He thinks of his home as “nest” and it is the safest place for him. If he feels hurt or depress he will stay at home alone quietly.
Once he feels better, he will come out of his retreat and lives normally again. Being a looser is not him. It is so easy to fall in love with this guy because he is gentle and a very polite guy. His wit and creative mind could win your affection. He will come out from his nest to protect you even if he is not opening himself up to other people much. Not many people will win his heart. His security is only when he has money in his pocket.
Once he feels secure then he might think of having a happy family. Even he likes to make and keep money, he is not stingy. Spending money is part of his good image, so he will be happy to spent money to take you out to a very expensive restaurant or buy jewelry for you. Certainly when he has money he is OK. He is possessive to everything’s that he thinks belong to him.
Don’t try to talk to another cute guy in front of him; he will get suspicion because he is not very secure or confident in himself for this kind of competition. Once you know each other too much, he will start to look for new excitement, but not to worry for he will always think of you. If he thinks you are the true love for him, and you try once to disappear. You will be sure he will come and look for you. He is a shy guy, but if he likes you.
You can get up in the morning and see that he is in front of your house everyday till you go out with him, a very persistent guy. He likes a secure, cheerful and lively woman, confident but at the same time always acts proper and appropriate. He likes a secure woman, but able to adjust to his rapid changes. In the beginning, you and he will be so sugary sweet together and he will only think of you.
This so “super romantic” will not last forever, so don’t slip this chance. If you are the one who want his interest, then act and make yourself interesting. Be a supportive person and give him compliment sometimes, but not too much till he thinks you are not sincere. Unlike many other Zodiacs, if he is mad then you better get out of that room. He will calm down by himself. Giving him a slight touch on his shoulders or concerned facial expression are enough. He loves his mother, so try to be his mother favorite, but do not act like his mother.
Absolutely Correct. This me.
CANCER MAN
I love Cancer men, my best boyfriend was a Cancer!
I have been seeing a Cancer man now for about 6 months now. The realtionship started off great. We are very compatable when it comes to our personailties, but I have found a few things that does not sit well with me. He has expensive taste in clothing, drives an expensive car, and loves to spend money, but he is very insecure. It almost seems as though he is buying my affection at times. He is not a good liar, and very predicable. I will agree he does run and hide then returns as if nothing happens. He also doesnt like to be chanlleged when it comes to his behavior. I know that I will never deal with another Cancer
My cancer man, he doesnt want me to leave. He feels I will always be there. But he doesnt make it clear that hes in love with me. He eludes to deep strong feelings that are overwhelming to him. And though hes quick to say how much he misses me. He always seems to prioritize other things (money), and people before me. It always seems to be about whatever mood hes in.
My husband is a Cancer. It is right about the money part, he loves to spend and save. His clothes have to be name brand and he’ll make sure mine are too, and the kids also. He’s a real family man. Only time, we go without the kids is for new years. He’ll come right home and first thing he does is play with the kids. He even offers to COOK! The Cancer man is really moody though. You dont know when it will change, but it does less than a minute. I just tell him to snap out of it. The worst thing you could say to a cancer man is “I’m leaving you”. He never wants to be without the person he is in love with or anyone he loves. One thing you can always count on is that he will make you laugh and feel special.
This cancer man of mine is clearly a jeckle and hide with his moody behavior. He can be on top of the world this morning and by evening he transforms into quite the opposite. I think it depends on how successful he is with business and money on any given day. On the other hand he is an attentive and sweet lover, smart, quick witted, a good listener and family protector, will stand his ground in an argument and is very headstrong. He feels very strongly about money and success. Money always comes first with him, family second and relationships and marriage is at the bottom of his list. Once the cancer man is understood by his/her partner, relationships are better managed and enjoyed…however it’s not an easy task loving a cancer man, especially since I’m a capricorn woman.
Wow This is serious. I am a Cancer and this is one of the best that ever describe our sign.
Me in a nutshell basically.
my cancer man on the surface is the perfect man, smart, successful, good looking, loving and very family oriented.
my problem is- i think socially he puts others first before me. he rarely opens up and he can not satnd to hear he has done somwething wrong.
he has lied to me a few times, so i have a hard time trusting him.
I’m currently dating my first cancer man and I can agree with a lot of things that are said about these men. The man I’m dating treats and spends on me like a queen, but at the same time the moodiness is a big turn off for an aries woman such as myself. He’s like a see saw in limbo all the time. And the mood swings ruin everything. Yet he can cheer up at anytime and all of a sudden expects me to act like nothing ever happen. But this always has to be by his decision to cheer up or not to. I have to wait on him. So this relationship is very hard to walk away from and I’m learning to deal day by day. All I know is this cancer has been the best man I’ve ever been in a relationship with physically and mentally because he always gives me his undivided attention when not being moody.
I was involved with a Cancer man for four years and oh boy did he have issues. In the beginning he overwhelmed me with constantly wanting to be with me. He didn’t give me a chance to do, go or be with anyone else. He was very possessive. We started living together and it got worst. He would speak badly about all of my friends and try to get me to believe that they weren’t my true friends. He would try to brain wash me to believe that he was my only friend. When in fact he showed me that he was my worst enemy. He cheated on me with a woman for money and then wanted to forgive him and not make him suffer. I have gotten rid of him now, but he really messed up my head to the point that I have to go to therapy because his moods and constant unprodictable temper has made me anxious and unsure of where or what to do. I miss when we were happy, but the bad times out numbered the good. He was a user and manipulater. He would take money and not return the favor. He was dishonest and untrustworthy. I am so glad I am rid of that cancer man. they say cancer kills and i believe if i didn’t get out when i did he would have killed me.
wow. you explained my man completely! i have a lot of cancer-women friends, but they seem to be cheaters. could this be the same for the men as well?
MY BOYFIEND IS CANCER (9th july)AND ITS TRUE ….HE LOVES to SPEND MONEY…very hamble…gracefull..cute…cool minded..but not always…his moods swings alot…he don’t like anyone to criticize on him…but most excellent thing is caring and humor..he hides his inner feelings alot and get depress vey easily
MY BOYFRIEND IS CANCER MY GOD IM HAVING GOOSEBUMP BY THIS THINGS BECAUSE THIS IS EXACTLY HOW MY BOYFRIEND IS MORE POWER
I am with a cancerian man he’s a sweetheart and a very good lover but can be very unpredictable at times.
Cancer men are okay until you find out who they really are and then you have to learn to deal with the real person not the one you met..for me it took two years of us living together to find out that my cancer man had been married and divorced right before we got together….
wow, My drug dealer is REALLLLY FULLY BLOWN Cancer. & he is ‘very gifted’ at rolling blunts. “his security is only when he has money in his pocket” LMAO so true. they’re really intresting people…always seems to entertain me.
My fiance is a cancer is he is the best man I’ve ever known. He’s sensitive even though he does not want to admit. But on the good side of that he’s always telling me how much he loves me and how he wants to be with me forever. I am his #1! I have to admit he is possessive but I can handle it, he does not take it too far. Overall our relationship is beautiful!
Im a pisces girl and i once dated a cancer guy. everything was great in the beggining until he started listening to stupid rumors about me that were not even true. He was very posseive and jelouse and didnt want me to do anything. thats why i dump his ass. i would never date a cancer guy ever!
i met a cancer man that changed my life. he is so handsome and caring and sweet. i wish i could be with him all the time. he is the love of my life and he made me believe in my self again.
I can understand any remark which anyone else has given till now.
I am involved at the moment with Cancer-men, i had never met this sign….most of my friend are twin, taurus or scorpio. When i met him, i was on business trip. He should help me in finding my way around as it was new country for me and the owner of company for which i work for knows him and had asked him this as a favor. He was polite, correct and a really great help. It was not love at first side, although he is very attractive. He looked younger, which he also is…but i mean even younger than his age….WE became friends, and we liked to spend time together. We could and still can sit somewhere in a bar or restaurant from 20.00 till 05.00 in morning and laugh, make jokes…ideas…discussions…
I started liking him, but also had the impression that he must be gay, as i have a lot of choise from men, and they directly show me their interest. With him although….at a point i was sure that he must be gay. After months, all of a sudden without asking we stepped out of taxi and he sended the taxi away and said cool that he would spend the night….SURPRISE. Before something happened i needed to share that i thought he was gay…As i travel much and do not have a place to call home, i saw this as adventure, and 1 night stand. I also told him that i prefer to keep the friendship….if a 1 night stand would bother him.
After that….there where the sms, e-mail, phone calls, even holidays together. I fell in love with him and told him to make decision…but i am straight forward and gave him 1 week….i had no answer. So i wrote him a mail…saying thnx for great time. With this i directly got respond! He did not answer yet so why should i write…ok we stay friends…Anyway i had 4 months project in other country so would not see him, no time. So i told him yes we stay friends. After 4 months, the visit came to his country….
We met. I stayed at a friend, male, but friend friend…he was surprised and somehow upset. He than told me that he had new relation ship and asked me if i had as well. When i told him no..he did not believe that, as to his opinion you need someone to share your feelings with and to be there for you.
He made a lot of time for me, and i asked him if his girlfriend would not mind…no comment….till the last day of my stay all the feelings where back and i asked what i’m supposed to do with him, or what i can do with him. His answer: Anything you like you can do with me…..although he dropped me at the airport, nothing more than a kiss happened.
Next day he brook off this so called relation with that girl.
We have gone on holidays together again, he met my family and i met his family…..he opens up to me and tells me a lot…he yruts me as i trust him. Moods, i believe this has to do with knowing where the buttons are. Moody indeed he is, but i found out how to turn this around, how still to get him to a dinner although he wants to stay home, and tells me to go alone than….than he comes…to do me a favor…and after 15 min. he whispers thnx, you made me feel better…
This is maybe quite a long story, but i am trying to explain that if i’m combined with another sign these men do not keep my interest and are not a challenge for me, i would get bored. With him….never.
The only problem is the distance still which will change this year….And concerning Cancer-Men, i think this has all to do with the right match. This doesn’t mean especially cc horoscope…but as well as personalities. By the way i am Taurus
why do cancer men go quiet or never call? he only calls when he feels threatened!! wot shall i do?
im a pisces with a cancer right now, that does sound like him, but his moon is in gemini so he is very crazy. my moon is in cancer, so i can kinda really relate to him pretty well. im also a moody person. i have a son who is a pisces. my cancer man, is not the father, but he is really good with my son. they are very nurtering people. a couple of my best friends are cancers. im surrounded by damn cancers. but we will see how this relationship works out. cause i have a hard time trusting him. they are really dogs, and they know it. but i cant say us pisces women are better, were just smarter at it.
I am a Pisces women. And I know this Cancer guy. Sometimes i don’t know what’s his mind is thinking. And always covering up his emotional. I want to be there for him.
What should I do? i am kinda attracted to him.
this is true. they are really good people. well the one i was with at least. i know alot of cancer guys. and they are so funny and entertaining. i heard they are insecure. the cancer i was with was amazing. a good lover. he made me happy. i just couldn’t get enough. he was a great listener. he was unpredictable at times. but i made him happy. although our relationship is over now. were really close friends. hes like family to me now :]]
I am a cancer woman dating a cancer man. He is very kind and loving. I find that women are constantly trying to win his affection/attention. He loves it. I hope that this relationship work. He tells me that he wants the relationship to continue to grow. I am not clear if he is really into me. He has been actively dating for the past 15 months. I am the typical cancer woman, when it comes to him, I am unsure. I can only date one person at a time and if I don’t see potential for romance; I find it pointless to date or even go out with the person. I am not the type to waste people’s time. I wonder what would come of this relationship. It seems that from day one we had issues. He finds me demanding and I find that he wants to collect women, though he tells me it no so. He excuses his behavior by stating that he likes to date and meet people. We tried separating and we found it very hard to part without each other. He completes me in a way I can’t explain and he reports needing my energy around him. Truth is I love this man and hope that he figures it out someday. The relationship is all but boring.
can i say that u r not 100% correct? because, u r more than 100% correct.
I am him – a cancer man 
tht was a superb job.
Jeeeez do I need help with my cancer man…we have only been talking for a month, but when he saw that I was trying to be a couple he kinda started backin away, so I told him let’s just take it slow and no strings attached(I really didn’t mean that though) so agreed wholeheartedly and he we’ve been great he’s very attentive affectionate and I am falling for him fast. My question is, how do I tell him I want more without scaring him away. Btw I am a capricorn woman.
THANK YOU. this article has been very helpful in knowing someone very dear to me. you have just completely described him. now i know how to go about with his mood swings, and he can be adorable when he wants to be endearing.
“Money always comes first with him, family second and relationships and marriage is at the bottom of his list. Once the cancer man is understood by his/her partner, relationships are better managed and enjoyed…however it’s not an easy task loving a cancer man, especially since I’m a capricorn woman.”
stacia said this on 19/May/2007 at 4:21 AM
- – - we have the same fate. i am capricorn woman. i value relationships and marriage, which for him is exact opposite. as in most cases, we cant choose the one we give our heart to.
Im a single mother that is a cancer…I treat every1 I meet with the upmost respect as long as i get it in return. My childs father is a cancer also, and I have read everything that every1 has wrote. I really do feel no matter what sign u are it all has to do with how, u are as an individual and how u were raised because at times. I know Im becoming moody and I dont like it so im strong enough to snap out of it.
I wish there was an easlier way on how I could understand my childs father for the sane of our daughter.
*have a blessed day every1
I dated a Cancer man for about a year (this ended yesterday btw). I’m a Gemini woman, and I must say this describes him EXACTLY. He gets very upset out of the blue, or for very minor reasons, and hides for days. I didn’t hear from him for a whole week once because he was upset. Our recent break up was due to the same behavior, I had enough! ” He is a shy guy, but if he likes you. You can get up in the morning and see that he is in front of your house everyday till you go out with him, a very persistent guy.” This is true, I had enough of his moods once before, and he won me back with his charm and persistence. “In the beginning, you and he will be so sugary sweet together and he will only think of you. This so ‘super romantic’ will not last forever” This is VERY true. In the beginning (during the first month), he did a lot and went out of his way to make me feel special. That all went away. This man told me he loved me and was in love with me everyday, yet he never did anything special for me, never bought me a thing not for any holidays, and we celebrated 3 together, yet he buys himself Gucci and Louis Vuitton (has very expensive taste!) After a while, things weren’t adding up. Overall, he was a very sweet guy, sensitive, attentive and very attractive, but the mood swings are a TURN OFF, something I know I couldn’t deal with long term. I will NEVER date another Cancer man!
This article does not mention anything about Cancers being trustworthy people. Does anyone know if Cancer men are liars?